What if I don't agree with the direction of the church? This question comes up in every church sooner or later, so what is the proper way to deal with the issue? What should we do?
First of all let's establish that disagreeing, just like anger, is not a sin. When times of disagreement come up in the church--and they will, over and over again--a question we should ask ourselves is do we react or respond? We are all emotional beings and without the Holy Spirit to keep these emotions in check at times we may react or respond sinfully.
God has always been a God of order, it is people who sometimes get it wrong. The church was never created to be a democracy though we have brought this type of government into the church. God has always called men to lead His people and then given those men a vision of what He wants them to do. The leader then shares this vision with the body and they work together to carry out God's plan.
How to best carry out God's plan can sometimes cause a difference of opinion. I believe a good leader will first spend much time in prayer and then try to the best of their ability to present the vision, the plan to carry it out the vision, and the reasons for the vision and the plan. There should be a time to answer questions and address concerns that the body may have, but not to change the direction God has revealed.
So if all this happens and we are one of those who still do not agree, what then? We should respond by entering into a time of intense prayer ourselves and seek God's guidance. God is not going to give the man He has called to lead the church one vision and then give someone else in the church a different vision; that causes confusion and that is not of the Lord.
If we do not necessarily agree with the plan, then the next question we need to ask ourselves is do we trust the leadership? Will God confirm the plan in our hearts later? Can we remain a part of the fellowship without stirring up strife? If not, it may very well be God's way of letting us know that it's time to move on, He has another place for us to serve.